all that i feel about marriages

oh how even just the utterance of this word, fills me with oh just so many emotions. oh how since the very beginning, of my journey, i’ve but subtly dream of getting married to the one that oh i’d love.
oh how even without ever getting close to live this dream of mine, oh I’m able to imagine far and beyond it; as if it was my reality that oh i lived; from rise, until set.

oh let me walk you around it; as oh i tell you, all about what I feel about it.

anyone who has pursued or is pursuing some form of art, knows as to how as to how the process is more beautiful than the destination itself.
the path that led to ‘create‘ something beautiful is oh just more valuable.

similarly, the path that may lead to your marriage, oh the journey until that would be of much more significance.

oh it doesn’t matter how embarrassing and subtle the beginning of your love maybe, in the end, oh it’ll become just the most sweetest memory as oh you’d reminisce how it all began.

oh all that you may have lived together, will be what holds you as one.

oh the way, love brews itself as time passes, is oh something you’d like to witness unfurl. oh there’s no lovelier of a feeling than to feel her as oh she confides in you more, after having being too blunt about being not interested.

oh it is important to understand, that oh if you’ve genuine feelings for someone and if feeling her beside you for the rest of your life, feels just right, then oh it is you who will have to sacrifice for oh the two of you to become one.

oh there’s no love, without sactifice. for oh somewhere within, she still maybe carrying, the burden of her past that oh will affect the choices to her, that oh she makes in the present.

oh you’ll have to be patient with your love. oh you’ll have to be able to understand, what all she means and what all she doesn’t.

with time, she too will realize the feelings that oh you have for her.

and oh then will come a day when oh even she would feel the strong emotions that you’ve felt for a while now. oh she too will be able to imagine.

oh it is but all the experiences that oh you live together, is what that oh really brings one closer to other even when they were never meant for it to happen. oh no memory that you both write in your present is small. it all is important.

let go of the ill feelings for oh if you don’t; they will end up destroying you and her.

and when all of this said and done; oh the most blissful day to your lives, shall come to life.

for oh how can two people in love not; help themselves but flutter at the thought of waking up next to the one that they love, after having to have longed for oh the most simplest of gestures.

oh tell me that oh you won’t like to have her beside you as oh she’d smile the most natural to her, as oh she would try to open her eyes, early; only to have you pull her closer.

oh how beautiful would be the feeling, when oh you’d cuddle with her; the first thing in the very morning. oh to whisper a few words of love, only to feel your lips entwine on hers is a feeling that oh shall always feel evergreen.

oh how precious is the life of the married one’s, for oh it is not everyone who gets to feel such comfort. who oh feels this safe. who oh feels this loved.

oh it is rare, but oh it exists. this isn’t a tale that you only read in stories.


oh how i can imagine, as oh she’d resign on my lap, after a day oh so tiring, only for me to feed her as oh she just chews and be the cutest of them all.

oh i can’t stress as to how beautiful such moments are for me, really.

oh how full of giggles would it all be, to see her all mad at me, as oh i’d tease her and prank her in my own ways.

oh how i can imagine me being all goofy. oh how I see myself, leaving a toy cockroach (from my toy insect collection that i specially bought to prank her) on top of her phone, only to then turn to the most innocent creature as I ask her what time is it?

oh how she’d freak out and oh i’d lay there, laughing just so hard. oh I’m rather kind so I’ll be sure to record this exchange and share this with all our friends and family. oh it’ll be fun.

there are a million more instances of such moments, that oh i can write.

love isn’t short, in it’s reach.

allow yourself to be loved. and the rest of it, shall fall on it’s own place.


oh i cannot wait to get married, but i guess, all i can do at this point is wait for someone who would feel a lil different than rest.

i personally know myself and so i probably would go for a live in, for oh i won’t require me and the girl I’d be in love with to be married, just so i could be there for whenever she may need it.

oh i do not care for the society or the people around.

oh no one will stop me to love her in a way, that oh she deserves.

oh no one will stop me from doing the smallest of things for her.

oh i cannot wait to be goofy. oh i cannot wait to love. oh i just cannot wait to be, ‘together’. for once.


this is what a married life should look like.

if you cannot be your most goofiest self, then what’s the point of loving anyway?

oh tell me, where’s the comfort in oh such a marriage?

oh how will you love, if you live in an constant fear?

oh what is the meaning of a marriage, wherein you’re just there; caring not, if oh you matter or not. if the feelings to you, matter or not.


forget marriage.

the same applies to all those who are in a relationship.

do not indulge in any bond, wherein you’re denied the respect, the love, the care and all that you desire for.

confront and if all you still hear are excuses; oh just let go.

let go, caring not how painful it all is.


to all those parents who seem to revert to arrange marriages without even caring if the pair that they want them to spend the rest of their lives with is in sync or not; oh you should reflect on the choices that you make.

marriage is no light hearted matter. many lives has been lost because of a few bad decisions.

relationships cannot be forced. nor they should be.

love naturally. synthetics in your emotions, will only pollute.

to all those women, who don’t feel as confident, because of all the rejections; oh do not, blame yourself or look down on yourself.

learn to say no, when it’s needed. and stand up for yourself.

it’s okay to be naive. but if you’re just fool, then it is you and only you, who has to make the effort and clear the mist, that the innocence to you has caused. do not be fooled.

you are all strong and capable.

you’re all beautiful.

love right. love honestly.

to all the guys; be sensitive to her emotions; of the one that oh you’d like to marry.

be true to your own self and do not act as if you come ‘above’ them in anyway. you do not own them.

do not love, if you cannot maintain it.


keep in check; the lust to you.

to all; please oh please, do not pollute this idea of marriage.

amidst all the pain, that exists today, this is something, that oh is the hope and dream, for many. do not ruin it for them.

please.

with love

42 comments

  1. pratibhabehera · May 17

    Reblogged this on life is either a daring adventure or nothing. and commented:
    Most probably the best thing i read today. Emotions put forth so well, that you can feel like you are living it.

    Liked by 1 person

  2. Mounzer · May 17

    Love and love ❤️🌹🙏

    Liked by 1 person

  3. ivanabikorovih · May 19


    it’s okay to be naive. but if you’re just fool, then it is you and only you, who has to make the effort and clear the mist, that the innocence to you has caused. do not be fooled.”

    I liked this especially. Best, Ivana

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  4. Muskan sharma · May 28

    Such an insightful and inspiring write up.

    Liked by 1 person

  5. Nitya · 25 Days Ago

    even i used to dream of a perfect relationship…. perfect in the sense that , we two falling in love and marrying each other , eventually…. and it did not happen…. and for the longest time i have blamed myself for not being enough for him…..but after reading this , it feels like , todays generation has grown attached to the idea of temporary relations ……..thanks for writing this… means a lot

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  6. Bro.JohnMark · 8 Days Ago

    Thank you for this post.😊

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